On love

 What is this "love" everyone keeps talking about and everyone keeps chasing? Firstly, if it indeed is such a big deal, I don't think I deserve it. Secondly, to be honest, I don't think I want it either. Why would I want to feel so happy, so secure, so understood and then all of a sudden so alone? Love always comes with an expiration date. It is up to you if you will keep the person you once loved close or not, when the feeling finaly ends. I've also heard that "love is a choice". If that's the case I believe it is a very hard choice too. I'd rather make my life less complicated and easier by loving no one and, consequently, being loved by no one. Loving may be great, but the dissapointment in the end is even greater. That is what I'm so desperatly afraid of afterall. I don't think I can endure being let down.



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